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i would love to have my daughter be a phi mu, but i would hate for her to join a chapter if she didn't feel comfortable. it is a catch 22 in my opinion. if she really loved the girls in a different chapter, but pledged phi mu because of me.....then she probably wouldn't have the same fondness for phi mu as i do! since phi mu is for life, she would have plenty of time to get over that..lol.
i really wanted my mom to AI, but she said no. i had some friends whose moms AIed and i thought it would be great for my mom to do it too! when i approached her, she gave me this whole lecture about why she didn't want to be in a sorority. i think she still thinks that i had to eat goldfish like my aunt did in the 70s when she pledged!!! plus, there isn't an alum group in my area, so she couldn't really be active!
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