I am not a legacy. I am the first and only person in my family who became Greek and it was definately a little hard for my parents to get used to it. But now they know how much I adore Phi Mu, so they love it too since it makes me so happy. Looking back I am somewhat glad I wasn't a legacy when i went through rush b/c I had the HARDEST time with it, I was so mixed up and my mind seemed to change every 2.2 seconds about who I liked and who I didn't. So I guess just me personally it was a little bit easier to not have to worry about hurting my mom's feelings or something if I cut her chapter or they cut me. However I can't wait to have little girls of my own and have them be little Phi Mu legacies.