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hang in there
Finding out something so difficult, especially at such a happy time as a wedding, is never easy. The only thing I can say in relation to it, not knowing the condition, etc., is that they are finding new treatments in infertility management everyday. So while you play your wedding and marry your wonderful man, there are probably millions of medical professionals out there finding ways to help couples with infertility issues. I guess I'm trying to say, don't let it distract too much from your excitement in getting married because as long as you and your husband love eachother, you will love your baby, no matter where he/she comes from (as I'm sure you know).
And as a side note, should every infertility option fail you when your time for babies comes, I met my best friend my freshman year in college, and to this day people still think we're twins. She looks more like me than my real sister. So just because you don't bear a child, doesn't mean they wouldn't look a heck of a lot like you.
And you have a ba-zillion sisters supporting you and keeping you in their prayers, so whenever it's really upsetting, just look at your letters and know everyone's behind you.
Tara
I have a Phi Mu castle...
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