OK..........THIS IS SOME HEAVY STUFF!!!! I know how it is to want to belong to an organization soooo bad that you can taste it. However, I have never and will never lie to get information in the hopes of getting on the inside. I'm not familiar with the abuse story, so please feel free to direct me to that tread!!! I hope that the young lady learned her lesson and I commend her for coming clean. But, I will share with her what I feel. Find the organization that best suits you and then stick with it. Don't change just because one org. "couldn't have a line". Your choice should be in your heart...if it were you would do whatever it takes and take what's given!!!! I too hope to become a memeber of a BGLO ( can anyone guess which one!!!???
) and I know that if I were to ask any of the ladies on this board for information they would be glad to direct me to either a book or a site that would help. But, under no circumstances will they give any "secrets" (and I would want them to..I want to earn my letters!!!!) And another thing.....YOU TO COLLEGE TO GET YOUR DEGREE.....YOU CAN GET YOUR LETTERS AT THE GRAD LEVEL IF NEED BE!!!!!! OK....I'm done now! Thanks for letting a SisterFriend holla.