[meridionaleDG]

If you think they are already gossiping about you, then DO NOT JOIN. Friend or no friend, there are other sororities with different girls who would love to have you as a friend.

Hopefully, what you heard isn't true. Sometimes things can be twisted. If some of my non-greek friends went through recruitment, I don't know if I would want them to be in my sorority. I mean, I love them as friends - but a sorority is something different. just because I get along with them doesn't mean everyone else will - and so on and so on.

Maybe this particular sorority was right for you friend, but there is another one out there that is right for you!

EDIT: Ps - do not go into recruitment leaning for one sorority. I twill close your mind off to other sororities and you might mess up and miss the one you truely belong to. Reguardless go in with an open mind. Everything happens for a reason. I got cut from a chapter I really liked during recruitment, but now I just couldn't imagine being one of their sisters and not a DG. I became a DG because that is where I belonged - I might have not thought so at the time becuase I had other "things" clouding my mind with where I thought I belonged.