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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
Last year this time she was a recent high school graduate from the Bronx. She was headed to NC A&T in Greensboro. She arrived a virgin, gave it away, got abused, et al. I remember telling her she would not need a car on campus and even offered to take her grocery shopping once a month -- WTF was I thinking?

Ohh! That's why the name Innocence22 sounded familiar! I remember sending her a PM or something with my information in case she needed a ride somewhere or wanted to hang out since we are in the same city. When I first read this thread, I was like Inno-who?? Daaag. Oh well. Innocence if you are reading this, I hope you learned your lesson. It's easy to get caught up and go about things the wrong way as a naive freshman in a black college... but if you are sincere in your endeavors, take some time out to chill. Quit lying. Learn the difference between friends and associates. Declare a major. Try to earn a 4.0. Find a hobby. Go mentor some disadvantaged children. Get to know yourself and what you really want so you don't end up looking like an a$$.......again.