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Originally posted by JennRN
All that matters is that you and your fiance get married, right?? Isn't that the point of the day??
Some people have NO class.
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SO TRUE! I feel like I have to constantly remind my brides (and grooms) that THIS is the point - to be married! My FAVORITE bride was named Ashley - her wedding was to be an outdoor wedding, however, we had rain all day before and the morning of - when it came time to decide whether or not to move the ceremony indoors, the sun was shining brillantly but the ground was still soaked. I always HATE this part with a bride because she usually is so upset over the weather that she can't concentrate on things that need to be done. So I prepare myself and go into her bridal room and said "Ashley, sweetheart, we need to decide about moving the ceremony - what do you think?" and she looked up at me with this GORGEOUS smile lighting up her face and said so sweetly "As long as by the end of this day, I am Jeff's wife, I really don't care WHERE we have the ceremony" -- it was the SWEETEST thing because you could really tell that she just wanted to be a new Mrs.
Of course not being prepared for such a response I laughed and said "Oh no you don't - I was prepared for you to be freaking out, and you WILL start freaking out now by gosh!" She was just so sweet and even her family (both parents divorced and remarried) was great with each other.
I wish I could have videotaped all of that and shown it to all my future couples - they made it the magical day that it should have been because they knew in the end what was really important!