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Originally posted by DontHaveAClue
I can completely understand your frustration. I have applied for memebership into Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. twice, and twice I have received a rejection letter. And after the second letter I got frustrated and thought about acting like I was someone who I am not so that maybe I would be accepted. Then I had to really take a step back and look at who I am. My mother, who is not greek, and doesn't know much about it, used to tell me well, it's their loss. And for a while I thought the same thing, but after careful reflection I realized that there has to be a reason why these ladies do not want me to be in their sorority. I have yet to learn what that reason is hence the name DontHaveAClue, but I have realized that there are some things about me that I don't like, and that I need to change, and I think that you should do the same. Instead of lying about who you are, try to make yourself into the person that you want to be. I am trying to change myself, not so that I will some day be accepted into Delta Sigma Theta, but so that I will some day be happy with every aspect of my life, not just my grades, and career accomplishments.
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Maybe you should be talking to that chapter and finding out so that you will have a clue.
Not being mean, just honest.