[AKA4MJ]

Let me chime in here...of coure our "cousins?" (black people in general) do not RSVP and I do not think it is a class issue at all.

So like everyone else suggested, ask your wedding party to get on the phone and make the calls for you. That way you can have a more accurate number. Too, keep in mind some will say they will come and they will not. Some will say they are not coming and then will..so my suggestion is not to go over your actual count. Plus caterers, usually include in the cost a few extra plates. *A cost saving tip!

Good luck Soror! How big is your wedding party?

This thread just reminded me of the Ghetto Wedding Thread, I believe started by Nupe4LIFE WAY BACK, LIKE A FEW YEARS AGO! If you haven't read, please do, it is HILARIOUS!