I feel your pain -- or am about to, as I just ordered my invites for my November nuptials. I told my father last night if I didn't get the response card I wasn't counting the body, not even his!
Speaking of RSVPs, you may have to deal with folk who add people to the response as well ... kids (if you aren't inviting them), people's flavors of the week and other random people.
Statistically speaking, though, about 20 percent of invited guests don't make it. Best wishes to you!
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