From one sisterfriend to another, you got off on the wrong foot. You cannot go into ANYTHING with lies and deceit and expect a favorable outcome. However, if your heart is really in it, with all the lies and deception aside, there can still be some hope.
I can only speak for myself and say that as an UG, I would join forums and visit websites and hope that the magical list of surefire ways to be accepted would be handed to me on a silver platter. Of course, it wasn't. So after I was REJECTED (yes, some of us sisterfriends have been rejected before and are not ashamed to admit it) and I graduated, I figured that I could visit forums and meet memberfriends from my city and they would immediately invite me to join their chapters. Of course, that didn't happen. Sure, I have corresponded with memberfriends from my city, but I haven't hounded them. You have to earn some things.
However, during this process, I have found a home here at GC. At first, it was all about gaining information. Now, I have discovered that there are WONDERFUL memberfriends here, as well as AMAZING sisterfriends. We have great discussions on topics ranging from How Come? to discussions on Making the Band II all the way to the occasional Sisterfriend Only Question (which our mods haven't hooked us up with lately
). There are also other D9 sorority members here that are WONDERFUL also, who also have welcomed us to their forums. Those discussions have fostered a sense of sisterhood around here. Through these discussions, tidbits of information is revealed. You just have to read between the lines. Old threads reveal lots of things.
I am glad that THEY don't reveal so much information about their "precious" sororities. It makes it more fun to find out on my own. Everything that I learn here and through the research that I have already done is all that I WANT to know right now. I know that God has a plan for me. He knows how much I want this. He knows what's in my heart. He knows what I want and He knows what will be provided for me. If it doesn't coincide with what I want, then I just won't get it. But I know that as long as there is breath of life in my body, I will try. And as long as GC is here, I can vicariously live out my dream.
I don't believe that anyone "isn't meant to be greek." I do believe that anyone can be greek, but you may not be meant to be a "
particular" greek. Everyone can't be an AKA. Everyone can't be a Delta. But when you go in with LIES and DECEPTION, you DEFINITELY won't get a desired outcome ANYWHERE. Get yourself together. Start off with truth and GENUINE interest and try again. If not, life goes on.... One monkey don't stop the show.
Like a friend used to tell me, "You ain't gotta lie to kick it!"
