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Originally posted by Nikki_DZ
This is so hard.
My little cousin is the closest thing I have to a little sister. I used to haul her around with me everywhere, and I just adore the kid. This fall, she's attending the university where I'm an advisor for the DZ chapter. I would love, love, LOVE her to join our sisterhood, but on the same hand I don't want to pressure her. Plus, I honestly can't see her going through Recruitment. She's 19, engaged to a guy in the military, and might be transferring in a few years. And I can't see her parents being thrilled about the idea (my family is very, very small town and fundamentalist christian).
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I totally understand where you are coming from. I have two cousins attending the Univ. of Oklahoma and they have no interest in rushing at this time. I am kinda dissapointed, they are awesome girls. But one is already involved in so much that I see where she is coming from. They both have nothing against greeks, it just doesn't seem worth the trouble to them at this point. I keep hoping they might change their mind, but in the end I want them to enjoy their college experience wherever they feel comfortable.