I hope you don't mind me jumping in
, but why not meet him at church. It's kind of odd that you attend the same church and have never met (unless you attend one of those mega churches!). Maybe arrange to sit together at a church service? He couldn't possibly try to act up if all the church folks knew he was interested.
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