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Lets cut her some slack yall!
Seriously, marriage isn't something easy to get out of. It's a lot easier to say leave the bastard than actually doing it. We're talking about love that was at one point it time quite evident...but has been blurred by this situation.
I've been away from my ex-fiancee almost a year (it'll be a year on the 28th). It still gets to me because you believe you know someone so well and you remember the things that initially attracted you and you want to make things work because damnit that's just what us women do. It's so easy to see this woman needs to get out of the relationship but without walking a day in that person's shoes we don't know every detail. Not to mention the fact that so many of us women are dependant on men without realizing it. And sometimes we just need reassurance.
So I can understand why someone might ask things twice (a year apart). Hell I had people telling me all the time that I didn't deserve the crap my ex put me through. Did I listen...yes but did I leave...not until I had to.
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