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when it no longer embarrasses you that you've cried at sweet stories posted by people you've never met on a message board and then you share the story with friends or family and tell them exactly where you heard it with the basic jist being: "The other day on Greekchat, carnation said..... and justamom said...and GPhiBLtColonel said... and I wish XYZ were at my school!"... followed by tears, then realizing that you actually SAID XYZ instead of the real letters (slight exaggeration, but you understand).