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I would almost say not to, just because then they wouldn't have that maybe-conflict of either not liking the chapter or vice versa. One of my sisters went through that (her mom was a Tri Sig legacy) and I know it was hard for her - I think that she pushed down a lot of wanting us in the first place cause of her mom, so she suicided them and didn't get a bid. Of course it all worked out in the end and her mom loved us, but I'm sure she felt bad that her daughter had to go through it at all.
I think I would want them to definitely go to a school that had Greeks, period - if it was between a school that had them and one that didn't I would probably definitely push them towards the former.
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