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Originally posted by Pinkgirl
Ok, here's the situation.....a couple married a few of years ago.... husband had an affair the first year...actually it began before the marriage (wife didn't know) and husband-to-be invites other woman to the wedding...and she came! To add insult to injury, husband claims that he made a mistake and wont do it again, but doesnt think that counseling is needed.
2 and a half years have passed and TRUST is bleek as well as the warmth that should exist within a relationship/marriage. Husband still feels that counseling isn't needed...everything is fine. Yes, there are a few areas to work on, but counseling isn't necessary. Wife still feels unheard, unloved and unappreciated. When she tries to discuss her feelings with him, he brings up the fact that 2 Years have passed and she is still on this!! Any words of wisdom?
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Well if the wife feels that way, and he refuses to go to counseling, what more can be said? Leave him or stop complaining.