Don't ask...bad idea. Take things as they go. I've found out that if you start asking questions about feelings early it sorta scares guys off. Now if you want to clarify what sort of relationship you two have that's okay but I'd still just take things as they go and ask as they progress. Often times it's nice to just let things ride out and not ask the questions...it keeps the relationship fresh. Sooner or later you'll figure out if you're boyfriend/girlfriend or just friends by the attitudes and how often you all hang out.
