[sunnydays96]

Originally posted by DoggyStyle82:
MIDWESTDIVA and POPLIFE:
If you met me and liked me because of my business/ business casual style and short wavy hair, you would be upset if I grew Rasta style locks and nappy chin beard. If you said, "honey, I don't like that look, I preferred you in the manner in which I met you". Is that superficial or a legitimate.

Weight gain is natural with child birth, and if you are the mother of my child, my love is endless and without prejudice, but if your gaining two or three dress sizes because I'm treating you to some nice restauraunts, somebody going to Jenny Craig.

Again as with MidwestDiva, the question of who am I to tell her what to do with her hair? Nobody, I guess according to you. If I can't be consulted and asked my opinion on such a radical change, then I don't need to be with ya. Just as if you were short and natural and then shoewd up with a foot of weave. That aint the girl I fell in love with.

My love is unconditional, what I like isn't.

My statement about white men referred to your statement about "why is long, pretty hair so coveted in our race". I was just giving you an example of how others have the same emphasis on not wanting their women to cut their hair. Hair is coveted in every culture. In most cultures, the cutting of a females hair is taboo and only to be done as a sign of morning or great personal shame.

Love, peace, and hair grease. Or to be politically correct, should that be carrot oil?

ROTFLMAO

"My love is unconditional, what I like isn't."

I know that's right! I'm going to have to use that one.