Yes we all have preferences and there is nothing wrong with that, but if short hair on a woman is going to make you question on whether or not you are with a man or woman, than you have additional issues that go far beyond hair. Personally I have a short natural hair cut and men love it, I get play all the time. I was told that it shows confidence. Not to mention that men find it very sexy. And beleive me if you are with me sexually or any other way, there would be no doubt that I'm 100% woman.
But again there is nothing wrong with having a preference, because I really don't think I'm feeling the whole processed, greasy, my momma just pressed my hair look.
Just my $.13 cents worth
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Originally posted by Rain Man:
Another interesting topic.
Call me jaded, but I PREFER women who has long hair. I just think it is a subtle symbol of femininity. HOWEVER *in my best Art Fleming (Jeopardy!) voice*, I have also dated and/or gone goo-goo-eyed for sistas with short hair (Halle Berry style or au naturel). I have also dated a woman who had these short dredlocks that IMHO was rather cute. She was fine in body, spirit, and mind. In short, though I have preferences, I don't allow that to rule out those who happen to deviate.
Now for these sistas who are sporting the now-faddish short-n-natural hairdos. I say this out of pure comedy only: I am a bit skeptical about being intimate with one of these sistas. I am afraid that in the heat of passion when I look at her I might panic, because I'll think for a moment I was messin' with a dude. One sista I see frequently at First Fridays is a prime example. FINE lookin' sista, she just has one of them super-short fades like a man's. I have always wanted to holla at her, but when I see that hairdo, I chicken out. I don't want no "surprises", knowwhatImsayin'?
As far as my hair, taking another twist on this thread, I am (once again) going to get it straightened. I like my hair straight and semi-long (hair touching the back of the collar). Most folx think I am going to resemble Al Sharpton or James Brown, but I actually look East Indian--a woman on the street stopped me and actually asked me this. Currently, it is in a TWA (teeny weeny afro). I gotta try it again.
Anyway that's my $.25
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