I was reading the responses and I want to state a point I read in article about JAY-Z. A lot of times, artists do not pick the ladies that are featured in their videos. The producer, director or other members of their staff round up some girls and tell them to choose. It is sad, but most of the time, these folks are not African American and their views of us are different. Now, if you really want to talk about different views, I live in England and you will rarely see a 100 percent African-American, Latino, Greecian or any other type of couple here. To say the least, I trust my husband, but I have also tightened up where I may have been lacking. I go to the club and the British women swarm what we would not even look at in a hundred years, but they also get some of the good ones. I beieve everyone is entitled to their own preference, I know there are brothers I would not date. However, I hate to see anyone get taken or to hear they do not date black women because we require too much or are high maintenance. To each his own, but there are ignorant folks in this world, but we are here to give them a clue.
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