Style,
I guess I really didn't see a reason to go into extreme detail about my hair incident. I forget that you all weren't there and you didn't know the circumstances. I'm glad that we're on the same plane now.
As far as radical changes: In a way I understand what you're talking about. I have changed and I have been changed on. How do I "cope"??
Learn to love it. If I truly care about that person and THEY like they way I look then what else can I do? Leave? I think not. The man I was dating at the time got used to my natural and I'd do the same for him.
Doggy, I just cannot feel you when you said that you need to be "consulted" before a drastic changed...yeah I'll warn ya...*lol*. I also wonder about the idea that because someone drastically changes their style they are no longer the girl you come to know. On the OUTSIDE, yes, but 9 times out of 10 the heart and mind are still the same. So when you say they're no longer the girl you feel in love with...did you fall in love with the way they look or the way they are?
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