Hey VSUPhiMu....
There are several national support groups out there and you might want to hook up with them. There's a Christian group called Stepping Stones and a huge one called Resolve. I know that Resolve has a website--if it's not
www.resolve.org, type "Resolve" or "infertility" into a search engine.
I have some books too that I can send down your way. Let me know if I can help!