We had a "no-ex" policy for our wedding, owing to many things, but the bottom line for us was this: only those people who will stand with you and help you protect and preserve your marriage should be in attendance, and though I was at the time friends/cool with some of my exes, I could not say that these would be people that would help me (or I would turn to) uphold my marriage. Hell, there were some friends and family who weren't in attendance because of their inability to stand with us as a married couple.
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