Leave it to librasoul
At this stage in my life, no, I wouldn't participate in a threesome.
- If my husband were not involved, it would be cheating on him.
- If my husband were involved and there were another girl, I'd get jealous if he started paying a lot of attention to her.
- If my husband were involved and there were another guy, I'd just be weirded out by the idea of the two guys going at it. (I'm not opposed to the idea of gay sex, but gay sex involving my husband is something else again!)
If I were single, I'd entertain the notion, but it would have to be with two people I didn't interact with on a daily basis. It could be with two guys or a guy and a girl... I don't have an "ideal threesome" in mind, though.