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Originally posted by ZChi4Life:
Girl, I was asking myself the same thing. It just pains me to see people come on these boards and say how they wanna switch/leave orgs or how they can't stand people in their org. I mean, dang, I know my sisters and I have our not-so-good moments but dammit, we are SISTERS for LIFE! We gon' work it out! Some of these people just don't seem to get that at all!
It's like common sense--if you have a problem with someone, talk to them! Let them know how you feel and work it out! What's w/ all this "I don't like my sister/org, so how do I get out?" Huh? I would NEVER think of leaving my WONDERFUL sorority cuz someone might have ticked me off or b/c someone has a different personality or whatever. That's so silly and childish. What do these people do when they have a job and they have to work w/ someone they don't like? Just quit the job? Uh, hello!...you learn to work w/ them!
I guess some people just do not/will not get it


But ZChi,

Don't you have a different view about your sorority because you were a founder of your chapter? Of course you're going to do everything in your power to make things work because of all the effort you are putting in establishing a chapter. No offense to those who were'nt founding members of their chapters. I know everybody worked thier a$$es off once they were granted membership.

The thing that bugges me about sick is her cocky attitude. She's calling her LS all sorts of names but has never stopped to thing that her LS are thinking the same thiings about her. They may be just trying to spare her feelings by keeping quiet. She also thinks that just because she knows all her stuff she is going to cross. But what I seriously think is that the chapter members won't let her in because they see how uncooportive she is. If she is this unwilling to help her LS, how in world is she going to help contribute to the organization as a whole.

But this is just the p.o.v from a sister friend