Hey!
When I first decided to rush at the beginning of the spring semester I went for another sorority. And, just like you, I had the same problem, they were not looking for personality and what I had to offer. They didn't even invite me to Pref. it hurt me real bad, even though I didn't like them

However, then there was COB period at my school and I decided to try SDT, because I dreamed of living in that house, and the girls...well...they are amazing! It is the best choice I have made so far! I am glad that it didn't work out for me with that other sorority cause now I know I was destined to be a sigdelt!!!