Our Mother's Pin is only to be worn if the member dies. Ex: I died, my chapter would give my mom a mother's pin.
Sweetheart badges vary hugely...some chapters give them to just their sweetheart, some pin their girlfriends whenever they want, some can't pin until engagement, some have to have a chapter vote on pinning...
I know there are a lot of sweethearts on GC, and there is also a thread on this in the SigEp forum, you might have to dig for it.
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