hi cocoluv,
i'm not in NJ but i can tell you to:
1. find out if your school has had an AKA chapter in the past. if so or if not, then
2. are there others who would like to become AKAs? it would help if you weren't the only one.
2. check
www.aka1908.com to find out the membership requirements. if you meet/exceed them, then
3.look for the nearest grad chapter (on the website) to your campus and send them a letter (addressed to the Membership Chair) saying that you (you all) wish to become a member(s) and how to proceed.
good luck on your quest.