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But I will say that at one time being the cheater in the relationship (relationship of now 8 years). I can't understand why my man stayed ....but he was there, actually he is here, we are together, we made it work ...we still struggle, we are not married, but after 8 years if feels like it ...and the fire has not gone out. [/B]
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Eight years is a long time to be together without being married. I have been happily married for 11 years to someone I had known my whole life. Girl I wish you much luck. I can honestly say from my experience there is no 50-50 in a relationship. It is 100-100 because if one is only putting 50% in a relationship the other 1/2 of that person is somewhere else. I'm glad to see that you have God on your side.