Hello Shalom and Soror Ideal08 *waving*
LOL @ Soror Monet's comment on 'Y2K compliant relationships'
Still waiting for the professor to answer, will he answer.
Agreeing with ideal08 & Doggystlye Cheating is complicated and until I have walked in those moccasins I can't say what I would do either. But I will say that at one time being the cheater in the relationship (relationship of now 8 years). I can't understand why my man stayed ....but he was there, actually he is here, we are together, we made it work ...we still struggle, we are not married, but after 8 years if feels like it ...and the fire has not gone out. I was selfish, plain and simple ...all the things Doggystyle mentioned earlier came into play, all of them. Now what? Well we live day by day, as Dr Phil would say we are working through it openly (well sometimes I work through it myself, my man is a bit stubborn). I CAN SAY, Yes I am over it wholeheartedly, I don't ever want to hurt anyone that way ever again, and if I get treated in such a way (what comes around goes around) I am not sure what the heck I would do. But I have a higher faith and I will work with my lord on that one.
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