What exactly is cheating? I know what adultery is. Cheating can be many things and caused by many things. If it happened in college, it aint cheating!!. College is the worst place to try and have a monogamous relationship. Especially if you are in a Frat. I loved my girlfriend and would not want to hurt her but monagamy was impossible. For marriage or long-term relationships, things can get stale or people start taking each other for granted. The longer you have been together, the better other people start looking. You work late and all of a sudden a co-worker whom you have never shown interest in, wants to get with you. Cheating is complex and irrational. Are you cheating for the sex, the emotional connection, someone new to converse with, to get out of the house, to feel young, to feel vibrant, to feel desirable. If you are cheating on your woman, especially in her face, that is abuse. If you are cheating because it is fun and games, then that is immaturity. If you are cheating because the other woman is fun, stimulating, accomodating, with no pressure, but you love your wife and family and still treat them well, then.......
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