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Originally posted by Sverige
I was talking to a few friends the other day, who were all in different frats, and we all agreed it was an easy way to meet girls and get easy sex.
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Sverige, dollbaby...that is why I tried to stay away from many fraternity men.
If I had read this post a year and a half ago, I would've agreed wholeheartedly because I was a little disillusioned with the whole Greek thing. Now, the people who made me feel that way are gone, and I see how good being in a sorority was for me. I don't think I would've left my dorm room at all if it weren't for my sorority sisters! I never participated in doing any "stupid shit" any more than I would have if I'd been independent. I think it just depends on the individual...and of course, I think men would have a more negative view than women because from what I've seen, fraternities are harder on their members, especially pledges (being a sorority pledge, everything was candy and roses!). I get the impression that my stepdad has the same view of his fraternity experience as you do, but me, I'll probably still be wearing my letters when I'm 80.