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With our first, we told family right away and friends right after the first trimester.

With our second, I wasn't sure she was going to make it because I spotted the entire first trimester so we held off telling anyone until well into the fourth month - it made time fly for everyone.

I don't think that there's really a right or wrong time to tell. It's up to you. However, for your own sake, because people do often miscarry during the first trimester, it may be better to keep it to yourself, that way you don't have to explain to everyone "what happened."

REALLY, you do what you feel is best. Again, congratulations and best wishes to you.