Gwril,
It's time to put on that sexy dress with a gel-filled bra and goto to the clubs, get one drink and get your groove on!!!
It'll be a boost to your ego. And go in with the understanding that nothing is serious 'til he says it and "lights up" your left 4th finger... I'm serious as a heart attack!!
Nothing's wrong with starting over. At least you get a chance to start over. Some women never get over to start...
Remember, if you're truly one of God's creatures, then He had a plan for you and thankfully, that man was not it. I'd rather be crying for 2-3 days than be with a fool for a year that isn't worthy of my love... Just a suggestion, it has been my experience that one knows the quality of the relationship inside 3 months. After that, I would be chasing the wind for nothing...
How old are you? Are you 19-25 years or older? Really, age has nothing to do with it, but experience does and just living longer in life makes one realize how precious life can be. I say this because your statements seemed like to me that you defined yourself by this "heart robber" . You seem like you have declared spiritual bankruptcy... I've been there, done that. Just know this, that God will never foresake you--He won't declare bankruptcy on you! Remember, His Eyes are on the sparrow...
Just my $19.08 to lift your spirit higher...