[astroAPhi]

I think it sounds like he may have a serious problem. Not only can he not stay away from alcohol, but it's pretty obvious that he's out of control. I think he needs to see a counselor or get checked into some sort of rehab.

I don't know if there is anything you can do besides convince him to get some help. This is not your problem to solve, it's his.

If he won't get help, then you need to ask yourself how much you're willing to put up with.