Hi Jenn!
I just wanted to say welcome to the PNAM club!
Firstly, I was wondering what the "RN" in your username means; are you a Registered Nurse?
Secondly, I also wanted to say "way to go" for deciding to pursue alumna initiation!! That's awesome!
Like Jill, you seem to have some great opportunities in front of you. Though I think it's awesome that both your friend and your fiance's mom appear to be willing to help you, you might want to let each one know about the other. In other words, your friend might try and pull some strings to get you invited to an event while your future mother-in-law is doing the same. If you eventually feel drawn more to future M-I-L's sorority, and your friend didn't know you were working with another group, she may be surprised and hurt. So, just make sure that both your friend and your future M-I-L know that you have interest in more than one group.
At any rate, sounds good so far!!
If you want to PM me to chat about your PNAM adventures, feel free to do so!
PNAM,
.....Kelly