Thanks yall for all your suggetstions, keep em coming! Cream, she bought her dress from Davids Bridal so I'm not quite sure why we haven't been there to look yet. WC, good idea about getting her excited, I bought her a wedding planner at B&N yesterday, so that might give her a renewed zest. Their parents are forcing them to have a big wedding so I think that this is the cause of some stress. I just want to let her know that I am here to help out in what I can, not force my ideas on her.