In my gospel choir in undergrad we had a lot of what I would call...(ahem) Pentacostal Pimps, or uh...Heavenly Hoochies. Crass, I know,but those terms were used to describe people who would brag about being "Literal Virgins" but who did EVERYTHING ELSE under the sun. I don't think it's just the "act" that determines abstinence or not, but the intent. Like my girl from school used to say (*warning, crass
but imho true statement coming up!*), God would have been just as upset w/ Adam and Eve for licking around the fruit, as He was w/ them biting it.
