Yo docetboy,
the Freshman year is always the tuffest, especially when you Associate with a Greek Org.
Your time is torn is so many ways that it is tuff to get aal of the Crap in the alloted 24 hrs.! It is sad that your folks give up on you so soon!
Hope you can get back in school for Soph Yr. Maybe a Jr. College for a year?
I would use the Militarty as a last resort.
I say this as my best friend who is like a Brother Son who is like a Nephew to me flew So. To San Antonio for basic!
He had Brains, went to Magnante School, got him started into golf and was very good! Screwed his Grades up, off golf, football and wrestleing teams.
Well, off and running!!