[Jill1228]

Well I got replies:

Group #1: My preferred one. Out of office reply. The person at HQ will not be back until next week. But I have already spoken to someone who is a member of a local chapter. We had dinner the other night and REALLY clicked

Group #2: Was originally my third choice but they are now my second. The only problem is right now they don't have a local collegiate chapter...but they are in the running.

Group #3. Was originally group #2 for me
They did reply to their credit.
Their reply:
An application for membership is completed by a sponsoring Group 3 and submitted along with two letters of support from Group 3. A letter of support from the alumnae group nearest the candidate's residence is also submitted. After a positive vote from the Council of Group 3 , the candidate is invited to be initiated into membership at a collegiate chapter.

Well I am rather new to the area so I don't know any group 3s.

Group 1 and 2 seem most receptive

So I have narrowed it down to 2