I never understood how you can haze (Brow Beat ) people into submission to come to love their Pledge Class, the Active Chapter or, The Greek Org. that they thought that they wanted to be a member of!
Damn, I wish I had joined a Greek Org. where I could get my ass beat with a board, have sh*t poured on me, made to do things that I might injure myself, and drink till I was comotose!
That is the way to build Brother/Sisterhood!