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oulioness...
take the summer and regroup. when you come back in the fall, people may feel differently about joining an alum group. right now, you all need to deal with the loss and the unhappiness of how things happened. it may take some people longer than others, but eventually, everyone will be at peace with what happened. once the school year begins people will miss the sisterhood and may be more willing to get started on their new alum group! i am rooting for you!
munchkin,
take some time to get yourself settled before you dive right in to alum life. definately join a group right away (if one is available), but just enjoy it for a while. although as a collegiate, you may have had 3 offices, 2 chairs, and lived breathed and died your sorority, alum life is more laid back. events are less frequent and the whole thing is much different than collegiate life.
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