[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Along the lines already mentioned, did you alone go alum, or your entire house?

If it was your whole house, I would suggest doing things as a group, like you did before.

I find it interesting that there are not enough Phi Mu alums in the Cincinnati area for an alumnae chapter. I believe we have more than one.

I would also do exactly what you stated, come to grips with what happened. My chapter also closed and if I hadn't transferred to another school and affiliated with that chapter, I probably would not be as active as I am. But it took a long time for me to become active as an alum.