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 and was basically told to shut up and accept what I was told - and I realized that Catholicism doesn't exactly encourage questions and debate.
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 I am sorry that some of you have had this experience.  Maybe it's because I did not go to Catholic school, but  I had the exact opposite experience.   My parents, priests, CCD teachers, whomever, always encouraged debate.  For example, on the eve of making my confirmation, I went to confession.  I walked into the confessional, and asked our parish priest point blank why we needed to go through confession, which I always thought was a stupid thing to do.  I mean, why do I need to  talk to a priest when I could cut out the middle man and talk to Jesus personally.   I thought he was genuinely interested in my point of view, and that made me listen to his views.  I thanked him, then went home.  I was still confirmed, and confession is still my least-favorite sacrament.  When I taught CCD, I encouraged questions.  I freely admitted that I did not have the answers; all I could give them were my opinions, backed up by scripture.
 
			
			
			
			
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