ALPHA CHI GIRL WHEN I WAS IN SCHOOL WE DID NOT HAVE THE DEBUTANTE BALL BUT THEY HAVE IT IN THE SCHOOLS NOW.........TRUTH BE TOLD DEAR THE IMMORALITY OF THE WHOLE ISSUE IS THE PREMARITAL SEX AND IN GODS EYES A WOMAN HAVING SEX BEFORE SHE IS MARRIED IS NO BETTER THAN ONE THAT GETS CAUGHT UP AND HAS A KID, AND IF YOU THINK OTHERWISE YOU ARE SADLY MISTAKEN. GIVING BIRTH IS NEVER A SIN. SO IF YOU ARE OUT THERE OR WERE OUT THERE AT ONE TIME SCREWING WITH NO RING ON YOUR FINGER THEN YOU ARE NO DIFFERENT FROM THE GIRL WITH SIX KIDS DOWN THE WAY, IF YOU THINK YOU OR ANYBODY ELSE THINKS THEY ARE THEN YALL SHOULD BUY A CLUE............SO IF YOU WERE NOT A VIRGIN AT THE TIME YOUR IN HIGHSCHOOL THEN IN TECHNICAL TERMS DEAR YOU DID NOT FIT THE CRITERIA TO BE DEBUTANTE BECAUSE A TRUE DEBUTANTE HAS GONE UNTOUCHED AND IF THAT WAS THE CASE WITH THE SCHOOL IN MY AREA AND SCHOOLS WHERE EVER THEY HAVE THAT MESS I WOULD NOT HAVE ANY PROBLEMS WITH IT BUT LAST YEAR AT THE HIGH SCHOOL HERE THERE WAS A GIRL WHO WAS A DEBUTANTE WHO HAD SLEPT WITH SO MANY GUYS, I'M TALKING GUYS MY AGE(25) BUT YET SHE QUALIFIED TO FRONT IN WHITE BUT THIS OTHER YOUNG LADY THAT ALWAYS VOLUNTEERED WITH US AFTER SCHOOL COULD NOT BE A DEBUTANTE CAUSE SHE HAD A CHILD BY THE BOYFRIEND THAT SHE HAD BEEN WITH ALL THROUGH HIGH SCHOOL HE WAS AND STILL IS THE ONLY BOY SHE HAS EVER BEEN WITH BUT SINCE THEY HAD A CHILD THEY COULD NOT PARITCIPATE BUT THE TOWN HOOKER COULD BECAUSE SHE DID NOT HAVE ANY CHILDREN(DUE MOSTLY TO ABORTIONS) WHATS THE JUSTICE IN THAT? WHEN I WAS IN SCHOOL IT WAS THE POOR LITTLE RICH GIRLS THAT WERE THE BIGGEST SLUTS................
I never said it was self righteous for people to instill their values into their children. That it is fine. One can not instill their values on everyone nor condemn those who do not share the same beliefs though,. As I said before there are some who do not even have parents to instill anything in them, so its not right for others to stand around and pass negative judgements simple as that........I never said give up hope because reality looks bleak, for some hope is all they have. We should all work to better ourselves and better our society we should never give up hope but we must allow people to come around at their own pace. Wanting and aspiring for a perfect world or a world where there is no sin or a world where all sex is had by married folks or whatever floats ones boat in their idea world is fine. To achieve a world of such caliber would require that everyone work together in some aspect and we can not do that if we snub, judge, talk about, mistreat etc, those who have different lives, who have made different choices, and come from different situations. Just because you may not have committed the same wrongs as I have or the same sins as I have, or maybe you have not made the same bad choices that maybe I have..........Still that does not mean that you have not done wrong, or sinned or made a bad choice ..............................So I will say as I always say How can one imperfect mistake making, sinning human being judge another? They can't they just try to and it usually is to either downplay something they did or they have some self-esteem issues to work on for themselves.
If people are not sincerely interested in trying to help a person out then why do people even care what somebody else is doing.
You know how the saying goes if you don't have nothing nice to say then say NOTHING at all.
And my saying is if your not spending your time trying to help and postively uplift others(even if it just simply being understanding) then you should spend your time worrying about yourself and your immediate surroundings because nothing and nobody else is of your concern.
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