Ania I was not directing my post at you. I was just touching on some of the points I read about..........Its great that you came through that ordeal with flying colors. I just wanted both sides to be told.
I hope that all the ladies that work with these young girls are affective in influencing them to do great things and try and make responsible decisions.
Its just that sometimes some people seem to forget that the world we live in is not the "ideal" world and we are not living among an "ideal" society. At the same time what one person thinks is "ideal" for them another person may think that something different is "ideal" for them. Then you have some young ladies who are not even taught what a (if there is a such thing) "ideal" life is. So in our quest to school young ladies to work on bettering themselves and to try and focus on other positive things besides sex to do with themselves in trying to deter them from getting involved sexually.................We must remember that there are alot of young women who have already ventured away from what one may think of as an "ideal" situation to have kids in who may need sincere help also without one continuously letting her know how "ideal" her situation is not.
Once it is done a young woman has to find away to make her situation "ideal" for her and her child(ren). In which she can definitely do without some peoples self-righteous bullcrap.
Discgoddess is right it may be a more difficult(depending on ones support system) for those of us, who may have strayed from what some think of as an "ideal" situation, to succeed at certain things at life. BUT that does not mean we can not succeed to the fullest. Success comes in many forms and their is enough out their for all of us to have a nice piece of it. If we are willing to work hard to get it, we shall have it!
