I'm already married, but I would have to say a big fat NO! I love my girls to death, and several of them had input, but I'm too much of a control freak to do that. Shoot, my hubby even said since the wedding dress was a secret to him, the tuxs should be a secret to me. ummmmm, NO sweetie, don't think so! As a matter of fact, if I had, I would be looking a pictures of my hubby and his groomsmen in BROWN (that's right, brown) tuxedos at a formal, after 6 p.m. candlelight ceremony. He said he thought the brown would go with the champagne colored dresses my bridesmaids were wearing!!
There also a show on TLC that comes on Saturday nights after Trading Spaces (can't think of the name of it) where a group of friends have something like 5 days and $5,000 to plan a wedding for their engaged friends. The couple has absolutely no input on the wedding attire, theme, food, location, nothing! The one that will be on tonight the clips show her in a hot pink wedding dress!!