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I have to agree that I think everyone goes through a period of doubt. Things will look up, even if it doesn't seem possible now. A piece of wisdom my grandbig passed on to me during my collegiate years... look at the big picture. You didn't just join that small group of women in sisterhood. Phi Mu will be with you for the rest of your life, and you will find sisters everywhere.
Believe it or not, you have the power to make the difference. Something to think about ~ are you still in contact with any of the members who were there when you joined? Maybe you could set up an alum weekend or something. If you have a group of those (or any) alumnae who could come for a day or a weekend, have some sort of sisterhood with them. That can show the actives the bond that seems to be missing now. It will also show how much the alumnae still care about Phi Mu.
Like pinkyphimu said, spend time with your sisters and get to know them better. You might be surprised at what happens.
You have joined a very special group of women. Even if you can't find a strong bond with every one of your sisters, I can tell you from experience that the bond of Phi Mu is all around.
I've found sisters on this board that I may never have known, had I not been introduced to GC. While we've never met in person, I wouldn't trade them for the world.
Keep you head held high, and don't give up!
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