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Originally posted by PsiU1833
Well that girl showed no loyalty to her pledge class when she abandoned them. If that girl abandoned her pledge class when times were tough, whos to say she wont abandon her sorority.
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To me, the above statement reminds me too much of the DZO train of thought (at least the one that MTV portrayed)... that the girls have to "prove themselves" to the sisters so they can see what kind of sisters they will be.
It's just a bunch of crap really.
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Posted by Cream
I have mentioned a friend who got up and left another NPC sorority that she was pledging when they hazed her. I think that she would have been a good sister. The pledges who stayed and experienced hazing also became good sisters. Some hazing was nonsense, some was a pain in the neck, and some was downright dangerous.
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I don't see this as having "no loyalty" to the pledge class because she didn't want to be hazed. Her dropping just means she didn't want to be hazed, maybe even not want to be associated with a group that hazes. How does that make her showing "no loyalty to the pledge class"? I don't see how this [not wanting to be hazed and dropping] shows that if she was a sister she would leave the chapter when "times were tough"?
That makes no sense to me at all.
When "times get tough" for a fraternity or sorority chapter, usually that means they are having internal problems, maybe poor leadership, hard time recruiting more people, low chapter morale, etc. Not wanting to be hazed DOES NOT show how a person would react to real incidents when "times get tough".
I was never hazed, but you can bet I am going to be there when my chapter needs help the most, even after I graduate... and I'm pretty sure other people would feel the same.
If this girl didn't want to be hazed and left, it doesn't prove what kind of sister she would have been if she stuck it out.